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	<title>Carla Tara</title>
	<link>http://www.carlatara.com</link>
	<description>Daring to express the language of the heart.</description>
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		<title>Playing on the Edge</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Last fall I had a striking experience as  I was walking in Central Park.  The weather was mild and the trees were just starting to green. My soul was soaking in the beauty of nature and felt very peaceful even in the middle of New York City.
After a meditative moment of gratefulness and peace, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/playing-on-the-edge/</link>
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		<title>5 Tips to Foster Great Communication</title>
		<description><![CDATA[The hot sex that comes from deep intimate connection between lovers starts with good communication.  Here are 5 simple tips to get you talking.]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/5-tips-to-foster-great-communication/</link>
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		<title>Fun &amp; Facts on Orgasm</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Here is an engaging, funny talk that Mary Roach gave at the TED Conference about what she found out about orgasms while researching her book, Bonk.]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/fun-facts-on-orgasm/</link>
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		<title>Sharing Sweetness</title>
		<description><![CDATA[February is the season for romance.  But not everyone&#8217;s relationship is as hot &#38; sexy as they would like. Have you experienced a decline in your romance lately? Or perhaps you have gone some time without that “spark” you felt when you first met your lover?
Ladies, perhaps you realize that you are feeling less beautiful, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/sharing-sweetness/</link>
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		<title>Real Listening Feeds Eros</title>
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When I work with couples who are resistant to healing their relationship and who no longer feel the kind of  sensuality they felt when they met, it is often due to their lack of listening. It&#8217;s very common in long-term relationships.
Tantra says that newness is the preferred food for Eros.  Eros dies when habits come [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/real-listening-feeds-eros/</link>
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		<title>Ecstasy Is Natural</title>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Ecstasy is our very nature, not to be ecstatic is simply unnecessary. To be ecstatic is natural, spontaneous. It needs no effort to be ecstatic, it needs great effort to be miserable. That&#8217;s why you look so tired, because misery is real hard work; to maintain it is really difficult, because you are doing something [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/ecstasy-is-natural/</link>
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		<title>David Deida on Orgasm</title>
		<description><![CDATA[For Him:
&#8220;Sex can be a time of total dissolution in love. Sex can bathe every cell in your body with light, bliss, and life force. Sex can be an ecstatic practice of open-hearted communion and surrender to infinity. Or, sex can be 10 or 20 minutes of genital stimulation ending in a spasm of biological [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/thoughts-on-orgasm/</link>
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		<title>Does Size Matter?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s an age-old question, isn&#8217;t it?  Marketers use it to sell magazines to women, and pills and pumps to men.  It&#8217;s endlessly debated on talk shows, and people flood call-ins with their opinion. Do not fall for the scams and the noise!
I think penis size matters only when your self-esteem is low, when [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/does-size-matter/</link>
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		<title>When Vulnerability = Strength</title>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re now in the depths of winter, and the easygoing open way we commune with nature and each other in the warmth of summer may feel like a distant memory. In the winter, we become more introspective.  We communicate more with ourselves &#8211; inside our heads and our hearts.
Introspection is good.  We need [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/when-vulnerability-is-strength/</link>
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		<title>Deeper Love &#8211; Allow Yourself to Be Imperfect</title>
		<description><![CDATA[How do you keep your relationship afloat and moving toward the destination of deep love and union? By staying conscious as you are gliding through the high waters of life.
Are you conscious of when you start holding back emotional truths and thus clouding the clarity of consciousness? Clouding the clarity is only the beginning of [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.carlatara.com/deeper-love-allow-yourself-to-be-imperfect/</link>
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