To Fake or Not to Fake

On the Fourth of July, I had an experience that I never had before. I stood right under fireworks that exploded right above me. While my eyes were taking in the incredible beauty of  the show I was feeling the explosions in my heart.   The explosions reminded me of a fantastic, romantic night I spent the weekend before.  I felt little bursts of pleasure in all the cells of my body…
It was awesome.  I was feeling so energized and excited that I skipped all the way home.

However, I want you to know that sometimes orgasms can be quiet and very deep.  At  other times, you know you are not able to have an orgasm at all.  Women sometimes feel that they have to fake an orgasm with high sounds  and fast breathing in order not to disappoint their lovers.  Men who might know about explosive orgasms might measure their own ability as lovers, by a woman’s ability to have explosive orgasms.

What would you do then?  You might ask yourself, “should I fake it or not?”    Read more

Intensive Workshop in Sexual Healing

UPDATE: Carla is now offering training in Sexual Healing as a private class only, for individuals or couples.  Please contact us to discuss your personalized training and schedule.

Many people today are incorporating more spirituality into their everyday lives. Some have found a calling as a healer, or just always seem to be the one other people come to when they need information or advice. These people tend to be informed on what’s going on in the world and have a fount of new and ancient theories on hand to help those around them. Is this you? Or who you’d like to be?

Spirituality can be used in a myriad of ways to assist in healing other and in gaining our own enlightenment. In addition to more traditional healing modalities, there is also a whole world of sexual/spiritual healing that is rarely discussed because of social stigmas and fears about sex.

But open-minded people realize that sex is as much a part of life as eating, breathing and growing. In this era where sex is over-exposed and under-valued, many individuals feel victimized, alone and permanently damaged. There’s never been a greater need for properly trained, empathetic sexual healers – tantric healers who help others remove their emotional, spiritual and mental blocks to freedom and their ability to reclaim their body as their own.

Obviously, beyond the ability you gain to help others in the world around you, when you follow the path to becoming a tantric healer you experience benefits in your personal life as well. You learn to heal your own wounds and continue your own journey to enlightenment. You gain the expertise to improve your own connection to your lover and your love life. And the work you do to help others moves you closer to your own transformation.

If you feel you have the interest to become a certified tantric healer, send an email to Carla@carlatara.com or click here for more information.